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What Is Energetic Manipulation?


Energy Exchange, Energy Vampire

THE VEIL & THE EXCHANGE OF ENERGY


Not everyone moves through the world with the same heart.

Some people give naturally. Some people take naturally.

Some expand you. Some drain you.

This is the duality of human interaction — the giver and the taker. The heart-led and the self-serving.The open soul and the defended one.

If you are someone who loves deeply, who cares instinctively, who listens beyond words — your reality is shaped by your capacity for compassion.

But not everyone feels the world the way you do.



WHEN EMPATHY MEETS EXTRACTION


Energetic manipulation rarely looks dramatic. It begins in the subtle spaces:

  • The sigh that makes you feel guilty

  • The silent treatment that makes you chase

  • The “I’m fine” means “Fix me.”

  • The disappointment that makes you over-explain


You soften. You shrink. You bend yourself into shapes to keep the peace.

Not because you are weak.But because you feel everything.

And you believe everyone else does, too.


COGNITIVE DISSONANCE: WHEN YOUR HEART KNOWS BUT YOUR MIND CAN’T ACCEPT IT


Your intuition whispers: “Something here is not right.”

But your minsays: “Maybe overthinking”.“They've had a hard life. “It’s probably just stress.”

This inner conflict is called cognitive dissonance.

Your intuition sees the truth, but your empathy makes excuses for it.


Eyes in the dark

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CONNECTION AND EXTRACTION


You begin to lose yourself when:

  • Your emotions always come second

  • You can’t relax around someone

  • You feel tired after spending time together

  • Your body carries anxiety you can’t explain

If the exchange is not mutual, if the connection costs your inner peace, if your energy decreases rather than expands —


That is not love. That is extraction.


RETURNING TO YOURSELF


You do not have to harden. You do not have to close your heart. You do not have to become less sensitive.


You learn to ask:

“Does this interaction honour who I am? “Do I feel more myself after being here?”


Your body knows the answer. This is emotional alchemy. This is energetic sovereignty. This is remembering who you are.



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